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  • Why I’m Grateful I Didn’t Have Any Orange M&Ms: Our Egg Donor Journey

    Mary Sue Findlater shares her journey of using and selecting an egg donor and explains why she has always been transparent about her son's origins.

    August 24, 2024genetic identity, blog, disclosure, early disclosure, egg donation, embryo donation, gratitude, identity release, open ID at 18, Uncategorized

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  • “Inconceivable: A Memoir” Review

    Valerie Bauman describes “Inconceivable: A Memoir” as part memoir and part investigative journalism, leading readers through her own journey to motherhood while looping in interviews from donors, recipient parents, donor conceived individuals, and reproductive professionals.

    June 14, 2024blog, culture, genetic identity, identity release, known donor, lgbtq, lgbtqia+, open ID at 18, regulation, sperm donation, Uncategorized, views

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  • Switched Before Birth: How a mislabeled vial upended my family’s world

    Casey Duncan is the recipient parent to two donor conceived people. One of them was “switched before birth.”

    May 20, 2024guest post, advocacy, anonymity, blog, disclosure, early disclosure, genetic identity, grief, identity release, lgbtq, lgbtqia+, medical history, mental health, offspring, open ID at 18, regulation, siblings, smbc, sperm donation, views

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  • I’m a (Donor Conceived) Barbie girl, in a (Donor Conceived) Barbie world.

    Commodification of donor conceived people is rampant in egg donor recruitment ads. One agency's Barbie movie memes sparked outcry from the DCP community.

    July 20, 2023advocacy, commodification, egg donation, regulation, views

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  • Celebrating My Family as a Queer, Donor Conceived Recipient Parent

    I was born in London to two mums who used an anonymous sperm donor to conceive me. I was raised knowing my conception story, as it was talked about casually, and all my questions were answered to their best ability as I grew up.

    June 22, 2023lgbtqia+, blog, disclosure, genetic identity, guest post, identity release, lgbtq, offspring, open ID at 18, siblings, sperm donation, Uncategorized

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  • Family Ties: How My Donor Conception Discovery Changed My Outlook as a Queer Recipient Parent

    I’m sure I said, “It’s actually a ‘donor’ not a father.” I can remember my voice saying, “Our daughter doesn’t have a dad. She has two moms.” But much of that changed for me when I found out about my own donor conception experience.

    June 2, 2023lgbtqia+, blog, disclosure, education, genetic identity, identity release, late disclosure, lgbtq, open ID at 18, siblings, sperm donation, views

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  • Incredulity, Anxiety, Yearning, and Other Emotions of Late Discovery

    "I joke with people that my first thought was, 'I’ve been diluted.' And as humorous as it may be to joke that finding out I was half white contributed to a sense of identity or cultural 'dilution,' it simultaneously created an incomparable sadness that took years to deconstruct."

    April 24, 2023egg donation, BIPOC, culture, disclosure, ethnicity, featured, genetic identity, grief, guest post, known donor, late disclosure, offspring, siblings, views

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  • Untangling the Vine:  The Perspective of a BIPOC DCP

    Eric turned to DNA testing to learn more about his complicated family history but his results yielded more surprises than answers.

    December 14, 2022views, anonymity, guest post, medical history, siblings, sperm donation

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    How Many Siblings Do I Have, Really? 

    Guest blog by Peter J. Boni, author of Uprooted: Family Trauma, Unknown Origins, and the Secretive History of Artificial Insemination

    June 3, 2022featured, advocacy, anonymity, egg donation, genetic identity, offspring, regulation, siblings, sperm donation

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  • Gratitude and Grief Are Not Mutually Exclusive

    Gratitude and grief are not mutually exclusive. It is not necessary to be grateful for your method of conception if it is intertwined with trauma or loss.

    January 25, 2022views, gratitude, grief

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